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Share with Care

When not to share

Compare pretend secrets with your children to start thinking about zones of privacy.

Goals

Understand what kinds of personal information should be kept private.

Remember that everyone deserves to have their privacy decisions respected.

Identify other types of personal information that can be found online.

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Why does privacy matter?

Your digital footprint is what represents you online. This could mean photos, audio, videos, texts, “likes,” and comments you post on friendsʼ profiles. Just like it’s important to be a positive presence offline (like at school), it’s important to keep it positive online too. 

The Internet makes it easy to communicate with family, friends, and people who love the same things that you do. We send messages, share photos, and join conversations on social networks – sometimes without thinking about who else can see them too. A picture or post you think is funny and harmless today could be seen and misunderstood by people you never thought would see it – now or way off in the future. Once somethingʼs out there, it’s hard to take it back. Remember:

  • Like everything else on the Internet, your digital footprint could be seen by people you’ve never met.
  • Once something by or about you is online, it could be there forever. Think of this like you’d think about a permanent marker: The marks it makes can never be erased, even if you realize you meant to write something else. 

Thatʼs why your privacy matters. You can protect it by sharing only things that youʼre sure you want to share – in other words, by being careful about what you post and share online. Why else might privacy be important?

It’s also good to know when to post nothing at all – not to react to somebody’s post, photo, or comment or not to share something that isn’t true. Everybody’s heard “think before you post,” and that’s because it’s really good advice.

The way to respect your own and other people’s privacy is to think about what’s okay to post, who might see your post, what effect it could have on you and others, and when not to post anything at all. Some questions for further discussion :

  • When is it okay to share a photo or video of someone else?
  • Why are secrets so hard to keep?
  • Is it ever okay to tell someone else’s secret?
  • What about if they’re someone you care about and they’re posting something that makes you feel they’re in danger? If you think you should share that secret, should you tell them you’re thinking about that before doing anything? Should they know you’re worried?

Activity


Invent a character around your age: ask your children to draw or write the character’s name in the middle of a piece of paper, and around the outside, draw or write ‘personal’ information about this person.


Now look at each piece of ‘personal’ information and identify whether it’s OK to share that information online or not. What effect might sharing have on the character’s online reputation?

Takeaway

Secrets are just one type of personnal information that we might want to keep private, or share only with trusted family or friends.

What other kinds of information should we be careful to protect?

  • Your home address and phone number
  • Your email password and other online passwords
  • Your usernames
  • Your schoolwork and other documents you create
  • Your photos, videos, music and other content

Vocabulary 

Online privacy

A broad term that usually means the ability to control what information you share about yourself online and who can see and share it.

Digital footprint

Your digital footprint is all the information about you that appears online. This can mean anything from photos, audio, videos, and texts to “likes” and comments you post on friendsʼ profiles. Just as your footsteps leave prints on the ground while you walk, what you post online leaves a trail as well.

Reputation

The ideas, opinions, impressions, or beliefs that other people have about you; something that you can’t be totally sure about but that you usually want to be positive or good.

Personal information

Information that identifies a specific person – for example, your name, street address, phone number, Social Security number, email address, etc. – is called personal (or sensitive) info. Really think carefully before sharing this kind of information online.

Oversharing

Sharing too much online – usually this is about sharing too much personal information or just too much about yourself in a certain situation or conversation online.

Settings

This is the area in any digital product, app, website, etc., where you can define or adjust what you share and how your account is handled – including your privacy settings.